女性安全 --美国警方的提醒

TIPS FROM USA POLICE This is a good reminder for all of us.You can never Read this too manytimes!
以下建议非常实用，多看几次，受用无穷！

1.Tip from police: The elbow is the strongest point on your body.If you are close enough to use it, do!
警方的提醒：手肘是身体最 有力的部位。距离够近，就善用手肘！



2.If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM.
Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more interested in your Wallet and / or purse than you and he will go for the wallet or purse.RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

假如歹徒向你要皮夹或钱包，不要递给他，而是将皮夹或钱包往远处丢去。歹徒很可能对财物比对你有兴趣，他会去拿皮夹或钱包，这是你逃跑的机会。往反方向拼命跑！！



3.If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car:
Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

假如你被丢进车子的后车厢：
把车后灯踢破，将你的手从洞中伸出去，用力挥手，驾驶 人看不到你，但是其他人看得到。这个方法救过无数人命。



4.Women have a tendency to get into their car after shopping,eating,working,etc., and just sit (doing their check book, or making a list, etc.) DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go.

女性常常在购物、吃饭及下班后进入车子，然后就坐在驾驶座上处理事情（如记帐、列清单等）。千万不要这么做！歹徒会藉机观察情势，闯入车内，拿枪威胁，控制你的行动。


AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.
进入车内，立即锁门，驶离 现场。



5.A Few Notes About Getting Into Your Car In a Parking Lot,or Parking
Garage:
在平面停车场及立体停车场的几个注意事项：


A. Be aware: look around you; look into your car, at the passenger
side floor, and in the back seat. (And check out under the car as you
approach.)

要警觉：环顾四周；察看车 内的乘客座和后座。（接近车子时，留意车底。）



B.If you're parked next to a big van you should enter your car from
the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

假如你的车子停在箱型车 旁，则应该从乘客车门进入你的车子。许多连续杀人犯都是趁着女性要进入车中时， 将她们拖进箱型车中加害。



C. Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle and the
passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car,you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

观察停放在你左右两边的车 子。如果有男性单独坐在最近的邻车内，最好回到购物中心或办公室，找保全人员或警察陪你回去。宁愿防患未然，也不要终生遗憾。( 大惊小怪总比丧命好。 )



6.ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are
horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

永远搭电梯，不要走楼梯。 （楼梯间是一个可怕的地方，容易让人形单影只，变成 最好的犯罪场所。 )




7.If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control,ALWAYS
RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ, RUN!

假如歹徒有枪而你并没有受 到他的控制，一定要跑！一百次中，只有四次歹徒会袭击逃跑的目标；即使他攻击你，大多不会是致命的部位，要跑！




8.As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking,well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women? He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked"for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

身为女性，我们总是发挥同情心：不要再这样！这样会增加被强暴或是杀害的机会。一个叫泰得 ．邦迪（Ted Bundy ）的连续杀人犯就是一个相貌堂堂并且受过良好教育的人，总是利用女性的同情心。他走路时带着一根手杖或是跛行，经常要求别人"帮忙"他进入车内或是看一下他的车子，趁机绑架受害者。


Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her "Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door." The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over.
The policeman said, "We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do,DO NOT open the door."

He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby cry recorder and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they heard baby cries outside their doors ! when they're home alone at night. Please pass this on! and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby.

最近有人告诉我，他的朋友在晚上听到门口有婴儿在哭，不过当时已经很晚了，而且她认为这件事很奇怪，于是她打电话给警察。警察告诉她："无论如何，绝对不要开门。"

这位女士表示那声音听起来像是婴儿爬到窗户附近哭，她担心婴儿会爬到街上，被车子碾过。警察告诉她：我们已经派人前往，无论如何不能开门。警方认为这是一个连续杀人犯，利用婴儿哭声的录音带，诱使女性以为有人在外面遗弃婴儿，骗她们出门察看。虽然尚未证实此事，但是警方已经接到许多女性打电话来说，他们晚上独自在家时，听到门外有婴儿的哭声，请将这个消息传给其他人，不要因为听到婴儿的哭声而开门。

回忆穿校服的青涩岁月

照片里哪个人是我呢？哈哈….这张照片很意思。它象征我学生时期的岁月。这也是我最后一次穿校服拍全级照了，读中六最后一年时拍的。看到班主任及全班同学say yes的照片，真感动。那青涩的岁月，真让人回味啊…..

虽然现在不用穿校服上课，我依旧会怀念那穿校服上课的日子。这照片让我感叹留不住青春及岁月不待人的哀愁啊.....听起来有点为赋新词强说愁之感，对吧？哈哈......

麻坡 Tangjong Emas

来麻坡游玩的朋友，记得到 Tangjong Emas 去走走哦。它是个公园，也可以算是麻坡其中一个重要的地标吧。它呀，挺有特色的，有儿童公园啦，也就是我儿时甜蜜回忆的地方。他的年龄应该很大了，陪伴它的老树也显得苍老了。哈哈......

虽然如此，他依然花枝招展，挺有魅力的哦！

当我拍下这些照片时，Tangjong Emas 正举行钓鱼比赛。不少老老少少都来凑热闹。

比赛办得很成功吧？一排排的钓鱼竿在较劲呢！很为主人卖力哦。大家都来钓鱼乐！

嘿，大家使劲抛鱼竿！

收获会是什么呢？鱼？水母？螃蟹？还是虾？

当天天气晴朗，阳光普照的，仿佛在给参赛者打气。也有人为挡阳光，戴了帽子。

有收获咯....虽然不大。

河岸都是钓鱼参赛者较劲的地方。大家加油吧！

别有心栽的行人道。有点艺术嘛~

真巧，那时有个这样的玩意儿给小朋友玩。是什么呢？

有城堡，大鲨鱼，Spiderman, 大车.......近看之下，原来是充气的大玩具。我要玩，可是我一进去，就满了,怎办呢？哈哈.....

Tangjong Emas有个大钟楼广场，挺宏伟的。但是，大钟有时准，有时不准，不可靠哦。

咦！有帐篷哩.....有人睡在帐篷里吗？

好多人在玩耍。

大家都玩得很开心的样子。

对，与毒品抗战！誓死捍卫人类的尊严！

又是一部好作品

你们看过《败犬女王》了吗？它是近日偶像剧中难得一见的好作品。这部戏剧的故事也颇有新意，主要讲述一个事业女性單无双与一个小她八岁男生卢卡斯的爱情故事。有别于近年来我看过的偶像剧的地方是它的故事比较现实，也较逻辑，故事也新鲜。我个人觉得《败犬女王》还有件很棒的事是整部戏剧里，播放的都是梁静茹唱的歌，包括《没有如果》，《情歌》，《爱情之所以为爱情》及《风笛手》。个个歌曲都瞒动听的，梁静茹真不愧是情歌女王。《败犬女王》还不错，若还没看过这部戏剧的朋友，不妨可以去看看^^

人生有多少个十年？

今天是我人生中其中一天最不愉快的日子，但我没有因此而沮丧。大马的天气依旧有云无风，是个还不错的天气，也是个非常适合处理一件重大事情的日子。真棒！粗心犯的错的确无法原谅。做了对不起一个好人的事情，想起来真的好恨好恨自己！事情发生了，我责无旁贷。只好走一步算一步了。唉….！

真的下定决心了，我不再与暴力恶魔纠缠。2004年也作过这样的决定，可惜棉花糖般的心总被骗了。遇到这样的人可算是件倒霉的事情。算了，别为这种人不开心。柴九说得好，人生有多少个十年，最重要是活得痛快。这回，这个决定，无论如何是不走回头路了。为了以后大家相处愉快且有好日子过，我不会再坚持这个亲情了。实在没办法，暴力恶魔，永远再见！从今我们以后不会再交谈，也不会再有争吵，无论你对我做了什么，或者发生在你身上的好事坏事，我都不会再有兴趣知道。是的，你错得太离谱了，无论我原谅你多少次都是没用的。当然，我也曾经伤害过你，在此我再次跟你道歉，这也是最后一次道歉。这回我们彻底分道扬镳，你走你的阳关道，我过我的独木桥。选择失去这段亲情是最好的解脱，我没有后悔。人生有多少个十年？最重要是活得痛快。

说些开心的事情吧！今天办双亲节庆祝会，我与弟弟妹妹们准备了一些菜肴上桌。

菇上汤
材料：鲍翅菇，针菇，肉块，芹菜，葱碎，葱油，胡椒粉，盐。

肉菇煎
材料：生蘑菇，午餐肉，鸡蛋, 虾米辣椒，芹菜，盐，麻油，薯粉水，油

炸乌贼

材料:乌贼，面粉，盐，芹菜，油

虽然过程费时，但是看到大家那么齐心协力做事情的样子，真的很感动。一起努力的过程让人很兴奋啊！希望来年能把双亲节办得更好，更有意义。加油~